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What makes a woman cling to the scumbag...?
What may look like clinging to you, is a mask, Bart.
You ask women who've been through this shit to
comment.
Here it is. To have a total psycho in your
face, eyes wild like Satan on drugs,
drooling, howling screaming, bulging with murderous
rage in your face slamming you
around like a bag of potatoes, pulling your hair
out, biting you, smashing your head
on the floor and walls, punching you, telling
you it feels good to cream you, and that
if you weren't passing out he'd do it again,
and you get a broken nose, 2 black eyes etc.
Why would anyone ever speak to the obvious monster
psychopath, let along live with
him ever again?
Simple total deep to the marrow of the bone FEAR
that cops and anyone else on the
planet can protect you from. Ask Nicole
Simpson. You can get divorced, have restraining
orders, move 32 times to get away, but these
psychos find the women they've targeted as
recipient for venting their psychosis, in a world
that has demonized women for thousands
of years by religious edict.
A woman never goes back to this kind of situation
unless she's in shock far too deep to
even think (which she can be buried in for a
few years because it's trauma right to the marrow,
something a doctor or shrink can't see or fathom.
It's only if there are friends, or family
members, or shrinks who can see the syndrome'
depth operating in her behavioral changes
and realize she's utterly incapable of making
any decisions because she's flat fried on terror,
they have to pluck her away and get her to a
safe house far far away. She needs to feel safe.
She goes back to such a murderous asshole only
if no one is around to truly move her ass away
--she's far too deeply traumatized to do it.
Women put on the smiley face and pretend it's
not so bad simply because the shame of being
treated so so monstrously is so deeply humiliating
to every single aspect of being a woman,
that she tries to survive in her society to not
be shunned and classified as tainted goods, so she
forces herself to hold her head high and pretend
she's just fine, and shoves the actual truth
of the atrocity down deep into her subconscious
and gets a few PhDs or very busy career to
keep her mind far to preoccupied to visit the
trauma of horrors that lives in her very bones,
and because it does, she can never trust another
man again, doesn't trust her society to protect
her from the monsters, and has her life long
dream of having a happy marriage, or at least a
loving wonderful relationship with someone, killed
off for good. That's dead. It was killed
during the beating.
Some women go back simply to protect themselves
from being murdered, childishly believing
the woman's love can fix the man's madness because,
snd this is very important for you to get, Bart,
WHEN A WOMAN OR ANYONE IS BEING VIOLENTLY BEATEN
BY SOMEONE
THAT IS A LOVED ONE, HYPNOSIS OCCURS DURING
THE DURATION OF THE
BEATING AND EVERY SINGLE WORD THE BEATER YELLS
AT THE TOP OF THEIR
LUNGS WHILE POUNDING ON THE VICTIM, GETS
HYPNOTIZED INTO HER.
A lot of psycho beaters yell things like "You
will love me forever or I'll kill, you bitch,
if you ever look at another man, you're dead.
If you ever leave me, you're dead."
If you can imagine 45 minutes of being beaten
up by a monster yelling at you the entire time
Every word gets burned into the psyche and carved
into the bones. There Is no recovery.
Going back to that is just to get it over with.
Death already occurred. .
It's a combination of all that horror that makes
a woman stay with a madman
Love has nothing to do with it. Death has
everything to do with it.
We need a society where these abusers are instantaneously
yanked out of society and
locked up for life. These beasts destroy
the flowers of life that bring up the children of humanity.
Crushing them crushes society. The therapy of
every kind this women would need to recover
from this horrible event is soooo huge I don't
believe she can ever recover.
Something is killed in a woman when she is a victim
of this male madness that our society
essentially condones--less than 35 years ago
it was legal to beat your wife.
And even today, a woman will be blamed for it.
Hope that helps.
Lené
Lene, thanks for that.
I know that wasn't easy for you to write.
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